Hey, cissy, about the ow trying to convince your H that you are out to get him and her, the ow in my sitch, left a message on H's cell saying that she went to her mailbox, and there was a red "W" painted on it, and she asked him in the message if he thought it stood for Who*e. So, with her weird damsel in distress paranoia, I am sure she tried to convince him that I did it. Makes me wonder if some other cheated on wife did it. My H made the comment one time that I had probably been by her house, but I told him I have no desire to.
My H is still at home, and says he has ended it with ow, but I understand how hard it is to try and keep things "normal" when you never know what to expect. My H has also accused me of hiding or losing his stuff. If you are still having sex with him, I hope you do get checked out now and then, and maybe let him know why you are going to the dr. when he asks.
