You know LL, he has to make his own decisions and whatever that may be, it is not up to you to really judge wether it is the right decision or not. I completely understand your worries, but at some point, for the marriage to be rock steady, you will have to let go and simply trust him again. And maybe this "test" is exactly the time to do it. Dont question his decisions, but be there for him and support him. He may very well sens this trust and love you even more for it. So let him plow her driveway if he must and stop worrying. He says he is with you, it is perhaps time for you to truely believe it !
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