she needs to find another man to "plow her driveway"
hopefully her own. the fact that your h didn't get mad really shows he has nothing to hide. he is not with her. he loves you. he is home with you. he has children with you. he has a past, present and future with you. she was make believe, an escape, not reality. bty, is she still married? sick? and aren't there other companies she can call for her landscaping needs? can you h refuse to go to that job? lisa