Gel, I am sorry you have been through this also. It sure does feel like a kick in the gut.
I don't think he knows that I have found out. He may have though, just not sure. I haven't confronted him at all because I wanted to monitor longer. But interestingly enough it seems he may have changed his password or deleted the account. Because I can't access it like I did before.
Yes, he did have a secret yahoo account for e-mail. That is still functioning. I found it by having a key logger. I started getting suspicous because a couple times he didn't want to go with us as a family. Later that evening when I went on the computer he had erased all the history and cookies. But I found at first the adult friend site because he hadn't erased the files. I started clicking on licks and there was very provacitive pictures of women from this site. The times he was on it was when we were gone.
So far it does seem limited to this account. I am monitoring to make sure. He seems iritable in general. I don't think he reads here. In the past I never even worried because I am such an open book with him. But I have removed it from my favorite list. I don't think he would know how to get here. I have never mentioned this site before.
Since I posted I haven't seen any out of the ordinary activity on the computer. Except he checked his e-mail account yesterday. The private one. This site really has upset me. Because it is a very real site. I went on it and looked around. It turned my stomach. Because there were 3 guys I have seen many times with living in a small town and all. I have seen these men many times in passing. One of them I know is married and of course his profile said he wanted a discreet sexual encounter. I created an account there to be able to look around. I was contacted by like 10 men. One of those being that married man. I tell you my stomach literally felt like I was going to be sick!!!
