Have you tried zillow.com to get an estimate on the house value? It is pretty accurate for my area.

Do you really need to push him on taking his things out of the house? I would pick your battles and that doesn't seem as important. I wouldn't bring up that issue at all.

Just concentrate on the financial issues tonight.


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