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You've shown him you'd be OK with or w/o him so don't put in additional pressure on him!


hey jim, thanks for stopping by.

you are certainly right about that. one of the things he said he feared about comming back is that I was doing ok without him, sure it took me a few months but I was ok. (way to act as if) even said to his mother "what if she doesn't like me" huh?

I know I need to lay off waiting for some grand gesture and learn to appreciate the small stuff, cause hey after all before he left it was the small stuff that I was looking for.

LL