Just saw LFL’s post….. Assuming she has not omitted any significant details like asking each other what type of underwear they wear or don’t wear, then what was so wrong about this “EA” except for the fact that it was secret?
Underwear? I'm not sure if you are joking or not. Cobra, the whole R with Chrome was never about getting ourselves off...sheesh. And even if is was, to me, that would be less of a problem than opening myself up emotionally to him. Remember, I had the OM R while I was S that was all sex all the time. Great, but not intimacy. This was different. And more damaging.