Thank you all for stopping by my thread. Your words bring me comfort. Was2, you always know exactly what to say.
It is probably one of the biggest fears we all face in this situation, because it brings a sense of permanency to the OW's relationship with our H's. It devalues what we had together. I feel so sorry for my kids, this affects them even more than me, because they will forever be tied to the OW as half siblings to her child. I just keep praying that this is a bluff.
She still has not provided my H with any proof. She has supposedly already seen a Dr, or is going to one this week. She said she will e-mail my H a copy of the results. I have warned him not to trust the results. There are so many ways she can falsify them. I don't think my H reacted to the news the way she expected, and now she is backed into a corner. I think she thought he would immediately believe her, and commit to her on the spot. I am guessing she assumed she could get pregnant later, or come up with some other excuse after she had trapped him. I am half expecting her to tell him that she miscarried this week, and blame it on the stress he caused her.
I just can't think about it being true. I can't go there yet.
Lis, I can't tell you how much your phone call meant to me last night. It was so good talking to you. You helped me so much. You are such a strong woman, with such a beautiful heart. I love you.
