YAY HOPE! Your attitude is awesome! I agree with everything you've said. There is a different between "waiting" for your H and leaving the door ajar should he ever come to his senses. But in the meantime, you have the opportunity to find new love and a new life, which you're already doing.

You go girl!!!!!


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track