YAY HOPE! Your attitude is awesome! I agree with everything you've said. There is a different between "waiting" for your H and leaving the door ajar should he ever come to his senses. But in the meantime, you have the opportunity to find new love and a new life, which you're already doing.
You go girl!!!!!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track