there is a point that you are missing. It's a big one.
For you To ask your H what You should be working on to please him (and why else would you ask him???) reveals that you have missed a FUNDAMENTAL aspect of GAL and detaching --- and so much more...YOU are the SOLE decision maker about what YOU can or will change FOR YOUR LIFE, NOT his.... I'm a lawyer (but still, a very nice person) and a wordsmith of sorts. I am frustrated b/c I just cannot find the words to show you, or help you to see the repetitious mistakes, small tactical ones, and huge crucial ones as well. The big picture, the grand scheme of things, OMG, how can I get through to you? It's right out of the Tom Cruise movie "Jerry McGuire"-- "Please, HELP ME, TO HELP YOU!!"
YIKES.....have a good day and I'll send a thought;prayer your way. Just for today, drop him as your focus. Can you do that? Bet you cannot yet. Is there at least a tiny part of you that IS aware, that knows inside, that this is UNhealthy? This is not all about love, nor will I say you "don't love him", b/c I'm not God or a mindreader.... But your dependence, your very survival as a woman, seems to be resting on someone other than yourself AND, worse, is resting on a confused guy with some growing up to do.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
