Need help ASAP - convince wife it's not too late

[Heywyre]

Wow GEL - I think you and I are twins - lol. I can't believe how much our situations are the same. I have, on NUMEROUS occasions (too many to count) had to repeat myself over and over and over before he would clue in to what I was saying. He is NOT a stupid person, as a matter of fact he is very intelligent and even the C said so but it was his interpretation of what I was saying that he twisted.

We are both conflict avoiders - *sigh* - but are also both getting better at that. We just have had so much crap in our past we avoid fighting at all costs. The C couldn't believe how civil we were to each other and definitely couldn't believe we were like that at home too, but we are.