During the time that you have known your ex, has she demonstrated a history of 'emotionally shutting down'?
Yes, she has had relationship problems with her family and close friends. She don't speak to her 2 brothers and has written off three of her close friends. She was sexually abused as a child and I do beleive this has something too do with her personality. She has never told anybody other than me and has never sought treatment.
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Either your are showing your blatant disregard for this advice or you have simply forgotten what DBing is all about because you broke the cardinal rule of saying ILY.
I got caught up in her wanting to work on the R and did let my feeling fly around too much.
I did re-read DB this weekend and have already started backing off. I will not intiate any contact, will not be returning her texts or phone calls right away, going to stop the excessive complimnets, no ILY's and no more cards or flowers.
