It was an interesting weekend. We went as a family to football game on Sat., then shopping + dinner. Everyone was really tired Sat. night. Went to bed alone as she wanted to listen to music by herself. Felt all was good.
Yesterday went to baptism of our nephew--we are the godparents. Her family doesn't know anything is going on. Day seemed great, but on hour drive home--kids were nuts and she was melting down. Whem we get home, it's "I don't know if I can go on like this. I can't stand kids anymore. I can't live like this. I feel like moving out and just taking care of myself. What's wrong with me?"
I reply it's a MLC. She responds--no it's just a crisis. I've taken care of everything else too long and not taken care of myself. I know you're trying to help more, but I can't go on like this."
Told ILU. She replied "ILU too, but I don't feel like I'm in love. I'm not saying I'm ending the marriage, but things need to change for me to want to stay."
What move do I make now? Do I just keep being supportive?
