Heywire, I totally agree with you, but cj's H seems to enjoy when she initiates the contact, and responds to that. That's why I say these things to her. Because my H may not think also to show that much attention or affection outside of the BR, unless I do something either, so I understand that. That's why some H's respond to blatant advertising, if you know what I mean. I know mine does, even if it's just a smile and a chuckle and he then goes on his way.
Cj already said that her H responds to her when she initiates in the BR, and doesn't take it the "wrong way". And it just seems her H is suffering from a little apathy, not the madonna, whore complex, but who knows, CJ didn't say her H was disgusted by this.
