You can not expect him to see the futility in thinking he can make it work for the baby, even if there is one, and even if he really is the dad. How can he possible believe a R born of extortion can last if his last one born of L did not?
He did not get anyone preggers that did not "want" to be. He must know it was always her plan, her best hope of trapping him. And that is ALL he will ever be ... Trapped. If he hates his life now then why would he be considering SuperSizing his pain?
We all know why. He is sick. He is not himself. And what does he think he will tell her, or what does he think she will do ... the day he tells her he was never ILWHer? What will she do as he packs his bags one more time? How does he think that is going to make him feel. He can not find any book advocating or explaining how this is going to work out for the best. It never does. It will not. He is so lost and it is so sad.
Even more sad that she would risk bringing a child into the world that was not planned for, and welcomed with love. Delivery rooms see them every day. Family court sees them every year.
Peace of the Lord be with you as you are forced to watch this unfold. We pray for strength for you and wisdom to make your own life the best for yourself.
