Well, all of the above sounds great, but when you are in the sitch, it's not that easy. My motto was always "you cheat, you're gone." Then it happened to me. Now, granted, I found out about 2 EA's & 1 PA while I was on maternity leave w/ 2nd child and now just recently w/ D bomb found out about 3rd EA, so I would say that my circumstances at each time that I found out were kind of messed up, but what I'm trying to say is that it's not so easy to just walk away.

I wish you nothing but strength, because I guess you do need to be firm about it and not take any more of the crap if you truly want your M to work and your H to finally be faithful and know that it's not ok anymore.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10