Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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Theo;
2 weeks per month of summer vaccation, (6 weeks per summer) and one week of spring break and every other christmas vacation, (an additional week).

After this summer, all of that could be with POS in the house, I can't see doing that to my kids, the girls have already said they don't ever even want to meet him, how can I let them be forced to live with him?

YM;
Thank you. I know she is not in her right mind, but I also know that I can't just sit back and see what happens when she is going to be this way about things.

25;
I hear what you are saying, and to some extent I agree, she does realize that she is not equiped to handle being a single parent, although her plan is to not be single for long, October to be exact. Yes 11 months post bomb drop on an 18 year marriage, she plans to be remarried. Thanks for the reminder, but dating in front of them will not be an issue for quite some time to come. They are being traumatized enough without having to worry if Dad is going to run out on them as well.

All;
What do I do at this point, do I say anything to her? We are still civil, she dropped by speghetti sauce last night because she still does not have a fridge in her house. I sent her home with extra linens for the kids beds when they are over, although that will be 1 night this month. OM is in town next weekend, which was to be her weekend. I feel like just staying dark until I know what my options are and have decided what way I want to go. Exposing the kids to the OM is the real deal breaker for me. Anyone who is willing to have sex with and get engaged to a married woman can't be a good influence, and yes that goes for my wife as well.