Absolutely, you can start over and yes it can be better. But it greatly depends on you and your husband and how committed you are in making it work. And, yes, I'm sure that it can be better. You have kids, how old? My sitch is a little different. It's me and my H's second marriage, our kids are grown and gone and we don't have any together, so I don't have a lot to hold us together. As a matter of fact, we were only married a year before he started his A. And that my dear, hurts like crazy. But for you, you have a history, kids and the whole pie. You can work things out and you can have a better marriage, but like I said, you both have to want it and you both have to work at it.
