It can change but he is going to have to start showing you he means business and part of that is being an open book.

He is going to have to give you passwords, let you see his phone everyday if you want, bills, receipts - all of it!

Until he does that, you will always wonder. I know there are others that won't agree with me but if he has nothing to hide, he won't begrudge showing you everything. Like Dr. Phil says "if you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing"

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)