Need help ASAP - convince wife it's not too late

[Heywyre]

One apology is not enough - you have to keep the reassurance up and continually tell her you are working on things, what you have done to make things better, make sure you actually get that prescription filled, go to your appointments and make her a part of your life and those things so she can actually see that you are making an effort.

One of the big things for me was my H "hiding" things from me. I don't if he really was or not but I was so insecure that anything would set me off (still does at times). I told him I needed more reassurance and he is doing his best to do that. One of the things he does is let me know what came in the mail everyday. As much as that seems silly, I was paranoid of his Visa bill for ages and this is just a little thing that actually makes me feel better, that he is opening up to me and not hiding things. Sounds minute but we need that - and so does your W

You might think they are little things but they will mean the world to her if you include her in them. Make her part of your decisions to show her you really do care and want to make things better