This is a great post Cobra. Ocean, I fully agree with what Cobra is saying. As a person who has had a ton of difficulty with identifying and implementing my own boundaries, I am all too familiar with allowing people to walk all over you and then resenting them like hell for it. You H has stepped over your boundaries, more than once. As unfair as it is, it is up to you to put a stop to it. I wish you all the strength in the world as you decide how to proceed.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
