I see things are taking a turn. I found out my H is indeed having an EA. He is confused, as am I. I posted it under "Revelation: EA." (if anyone cares to give me some guidance.)
I do not know what to think or feel at this point. I believe he is being honest with me. He seems a bit relieved as well. SO I am hoping he is seeing me more and more as someone he can turn to and hopefully turn away from her. There were issues before this but we did not talk about them. I hope that now we can work through our issues. We both recognize that she is not tha cuse, but more of a bandaid. I just hope these feelings fade before anything else happens.
2490,
Please heed everyone's advice. It is important NOT to make the same mistakes. I see as you H comes closer you are slipping into the same behaviors. Be careful. Remeber how far you have grown and remember there is still a lot left to do.