Yet another development - W appears interested in traveling to India sometime, judging from a brochure I have seen floating around. What should I say if she proposes to go there "alone"? Say we want to be with her? She could tactically do this during the school year and preclude any possiblity of the kids and I tagging along (maybe this will be after I tell her I filed anyway, and won't matter).
Last summer she spent 2-3 days alone (really?) at a youth hostel near Gothenburg. What do I say if she wants to take a break without us again this summer?
Interestingly, an Indian guy we know, who was cheating on his W with a girlfriend of my W, would probably be someone she (they?) visit. He ended up not leaving his W since his daughter suffers from a skin condition that is significantly worsened by stress and a D (Indian guy and his W) would be quite serious for her.
Oh the many twists and turns marriage problems can take -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.