Thanks O. Priorities at this point are to protect kids from as much bullsh!t as possible, avoid financial ruin, and come out of this with self-respect intact. Yes, I would still invite wife to join me in an incredible new life, but she would have to change one h*ll of alot before we could move forward even an inch. In the mean time, it is no longer about saving the marriage at all costs, or being nice, it is about protecting everything else. I plan on cont. to change for me, and cont. to discover who I really am and where I really want to be. The rest will be what it will be.


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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis