Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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That was in legal form, it is on the paperwork she had filed. I have calmed down, it was just seeing it in writing that set me off.

I have come to the conclusion that I do still love this woman, I just don't really like her all that much right now.

I have an appt. with lawyer to review my options, but as I see it they are
1)Disaggree that the marriage is irretrievably broken and make a request for counciling. (This could trigger a 12 month forced physical separation)
2)Aggree, but attempt to modify the settlement.
3)Aggree, and accept the settlement.
4)Aggree, and file my own petition with cause of adultery.(Not sure yet if that helps me in terms of a settlement)

I am just going crazy trying to think of any way to not have my kids deal with POS.