You have motivated me and I have just got my second wind.........
I will have to really make a better effort in not backsliding. I think I am alot stronger today than on any other day and I feel that I can do it for a prolonged period now.
I will need to cut off comms with family and friends that all have their 5c in, and everthing always gets back to the W. She needs to space herself from these people because they are constantly on her back about everything to do with her choices.
The anger from this harrassment goes back tenfold to me.
I will need to stop being the 24/7 man and let W worry about certain things now, poss notice the changes in her life.
cheers again Tia, you have re-charged my energy to continue full steam ahead.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
