Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

And the hits keep coming.........................

I backslid today like the idiot I am.

I asked her again about OM, and she told me that they are friends, and she thinks things have been progressing for the last two months (more contact etc).

She keeps telling me that she is not in love with him yet but has feelings and in time these may grow into love................. She has not instigated anything other than friendship at this time and he knows the situation and has not made any advances (I really don't know if he is interested, the info from family and friends indicate that she may be pursueing something that will never happen)

When they are together, there is no conection or chemistry that you would have from an exciting new relationship.

She also re-iterated that things were over between the two of us. That she made up her mind over 12 months ago when the stresses of building our house commenced.

This MLC is hard work..............