Come on, you asked him (count how many times you say you "asked him") a question....and he gave nothing, or little specifics back. You worry about each and every thing YOU say and that THAT MIGHT CAUSE the M to END !!??....
I'm sorry. I must have missed something. I thought it was YOUR HUSBAND that was cheating and deceiving. I had no idea that the entire marriage rests on what YOU will do or say and how, or when you say it, and THAT was the foundation of your marital problems..... Silly me, I thought just a little of this was HIS responsibility and that your main one, for now, was working on you and enforcing a (ANY) boundary with him...
Your revolving around him is part of the problem and will NEVER be part of the solution. GAL partly, will mean making something/someone ELSE take that place, like maybe you or your kids, or God, or someone OTHER than a man who sleeps with YOU and OW....again and again...and lies...but, hey, his hugs feel soooo goood. And afterwards, you always feel soooooo ......what?
Please take your lunch hour sometime and instead of calling him, re-read ALL these posts to you, and see what is STILL happening. Then ask yourself how bad it will have to get, Before you'll try something different, for more than a week. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
