Her comment was "He'll probably change his mind again".
Not making any long term decisions at this point. It's only been a few days and still trying to grasp that idea. Trying to give him space. The frustrating thing is he asked what we should do. He thought we needed time apart. I told him I thought we needed time together without outside interference. He chose his way.
Already I am frustrated with some of his decisions and it shows again what a low priority I am! My parents are having a celebration of their 60th wedding anniversary this weekend. H is "on call" so we knew a month ago that he probably would not be able to go (it's in a different state). Meanwhile, today we get an invitation to his brother's birthday party in May (and it just happens to be a joint party with his FF) and he told me he had already asked for a vacation day! Funny how he could ask off for his brother's birthday, but not for my parent's party. GGGGGRRRRR!!!! And he thinks I'm crazy for feeling second rate.
I'll work on quelling the noise. Thanks, Slowly! Appreciate your feedback as always!
