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Bgal, hang in there. Everything will be alright... Your son will sort things out on his own, but give him space and let him go. It's hard for parents to do this, specially if you've been a single parent too, (just like my own mother), but do it! Try very hard and it will get better with practice.

Also, in my case, JG is strong and he is healthy now where he has learnt to put his needs first and heal himself. We've both learnt this I feel. So, your son will learn and grow too. I promise...but only if you let him sit with his pain and grow from it. Pain = growth! Pain can be a gift.

Regarding your WAS, not sure where his head is at. But do explain why he's angry at you. I don't think I ever was clear on that. And know that it is a genius of a woman when she leaves a man space to allow him his space in his cave to sort himself out. But at the same time, do not, I repeat, do not put your life on hold.

This is Michele's DO NOTHING technique and basically common sense! \:\) ;\) Stop being a "fix it addict" and let go of all control...this is excruciatingly hard, but I promise the world won't fall apart. Let go!!

love you girl!

rainbowlove
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