Cissy wrote: ----------------------------------------------- Got caught snooping, not a good feeling, think I will stop that, too. See, I feel so guilty just from snooping... how can all these people cheat and lie, deceive amongst other things and sleep at night and look at themselves in the mirror, for myself, I will never understand it. -----------------------------------------------
I wouldn't worry about getting caught snooping. I snoop my bank accounts every month making sure that the bank hasn't misplaced my money. I would never assume that they have my best interest at heart. Video cameras are everywhere, snooping to catch thieves in the act. You are just protecting you interests, which happens to be your family. Trust me, if someone where physically threatening my family, I would be sitting on the porch every night, in the dark, with a loaded shotgun. I would also expect the police to be providing surveillance (snooping) of my family just in case the perp shows up.
I think people have misplaced guilt when it comes to "snooping", so give yourself a break.
I do think that you might as well stop snooping on him now that you know he is guilty. If the issue comes up, just assume that he is cheating until he proves otherwise. Let the burden of proof be his problem. Until then, believe nothing he says.
Fixing up the house sounds like a great idea. Have fun!
God bless, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
