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yes, I agree inevidably if you don't get "the whole ball of wax" that you are seeking...you will walk.
the time span that we are willing to wait is up to us...

Yes, LL, it's up to us, and somewhere on this thread, I stated that I'd give it another year, so I guess a deal's a deal! This approach/avoidance stuff from the distancing spouses, with all of its backing and filling, etc., does try one's patience, however. I'm sure that it's a real character builder for us.
Sam