Thought I'd update things. I haven't posted anything lately, simply because everything's been basically status quo. Thankfully, I'm still maintaining my composure, am not anxious, don't pursue or snoop, have begun to do my own thing by spending time with friends (new and old), taking up my music again, giving more time and attention to my dtrs, and all that other good stuff.
W, however, is still floundering: taking all kinds of courses (finance for women, ceramics, achieving prosperity, calligraphy, etc.); attending C by herself (seems as tho I've been "fired" from the C sessions); coming and going as she pleases, speaking very little to me, no affectionate names, no touching, and certainly no sex!
Yet, she is constantly initiating things to do together, such as dinner, going to B'way plays, getting together with friends. Most of the time, I go along with these invites, but if I have something else penciled in, I will politely decline.
At times, it seems as tho we're making no progress. However, we are still under the same roof, share family responsibilities, do some things together -- it's just that we don't really have a M anymore. I've made my peace with the notion that it's really up to her now. I can't force, mold or massage her thoughts and actions. As I said before, I'll give it another year, but to keep my sanity, it's gonna have to be one day at a time.
Any input on how to jar things loose would be appreciated.
