Thanks for the encouragement and advice on my thread. I welcome all comments and suggestions, especially new voices with fresh perspectives. Thanks again.
Your W's speech is a classic example of getting what you asked for. You wanted to know the truth...do you think she meant what she said? I would take everything with a grain of salt. I heard the same things from my wife for six months. We were separated, and she was talking divorce and all the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" crap. I was told that I was bad father, when just the week before she had praised my parenting skills. As early as 3 months ago, there appeared little hope for us. Now things have changed dramatically.
The point is, your W may feel exactly the way she said she did today, and tomorrow she may feel totally different. Or if not today, next week or next month. You cannot do a thing about that. You cannot change one thing about the way she feels. She is all about her emotions and feelings...or lack of emotions and feelings...right now. Try not to obsess over her words or actions. Concentrate on the one thing that you can change... you.
Don't have time for anything more than that for now. I'll check back soon. Stay strong, stay focused.
