Oh...and reguards using protection...do you know what OW might have???...Human Papiloma Virus is very very commong...and is known to lead to cervical cancer!!!...She could have this, "look" normal....and H could very well bring it back to you...
Yes my H did approach me physically when he started his come back...but I held him back because 1) I wanted him to be physically checked out...if he had something it wasn't a deal breaker but something to be careful about 2) I wanted to make sure he was back to stay...as a woman when we ML it is very deeply personal...and emotional...I couldn't allow myself to be hurt again if he found he wasn't ready....Tam, remember last time he "came home" to work things out...it didn't work!!!
I don't think it will work (I could be wrong but odds are not with you) if you two move too fast to get things back to "normal"....
I know it was probably very flattering to have say all those nice things...but there is more to fixing this then that...and I think you are soaking it up and that is what is making you do better...not a healthy thing for you...you need to feel good all on your own!!!....you haven't made that journey complete...which means to me...I will repeat if not finished properly!
