H called me during the day yesterday while at work to see how me and kids where doing. I have found that if i don't call him(which I don't anymore unless I need something) he will call me. He came home really late last night I was already in bed (still awake). Heard him complaining that the front door was locked. If he wants it unlocked when he comes home then he should come home at a decent time. When I go to bed i lock the door don't care if he is home or not.
After he got a shower he came in the bedroom (my room) and layed down and saied "I know your not asleep". I was pretending to be but he probably heard me coughing just can't get rid of this cold. He asked how my day was I said fine, asked him about his day he gave me one of his laughs--which meant it sucked. then he said work was fine. I asked what was wrong with rest of day and he answered you. asked why and h said just because. Then he asked me where I got the card I gave him for it described our situation perfectly. It was our anniversary yesterday-I didn't want to give him a mushy card i found a card that I thought was perfect. I think he liked the card & I think it made him think, hope so anyways.
H then heard son snoring and said he couldn't sleep with that and said goodnight and left to his bed. So i am wondering if he was concidering sleeping in our bed.
He called again today while at work to see how we where doing. said he was going to go out on his boat after work since it was so nice out. Asked if he wanted company, he thought about it for a minute then said, there was still alot of debri in river & didn't want to take chance of living children parentless if something happened.
I'm going to spend the night at my parents so he can have some alone time at home. H seems to be happy about that.
me: 31, H: 32 Together 7 yrs; married 5yrs D-3, S-2, S-6m bomb #1: 10/06 (wants divorce) bomb #2: 2/24/07 (having affair) my story