I have radar, GOOD radar. I told you guys I felt something wasn't right...and I just found out I was right.

H sat here this AM and told me a big, fat lie. He told me he had an evening staff meeting on Tuesday that would run late. He left his calendar up when he went to take a shower just now, and I was looking for our next MC date (he's the one who keeps track of that stuff). Next Tuesday he has in big, bold letters, "Movie in _______ with ______!!" Not LW, but I'm guessing she'll be there if he's lying to me about it. WHY LIE?????

He's hiding things from me again, lying his @ss off. I'm putting the 48 hours into effect, but if he's lying to me about this, then he's lying to me about a lot more, namely his feelings about LW. And I'm freaking DONE with him. I won't do this again, no way, now how.

I just want to punch him in the face. I'm going to go get myself cleaned up and get out of the house for the rest of the day. I'm not good at pretending, and I'm not ready for this conversation right now.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!