sam, zebra is very wise. what is the nature of the contact and how did you find out? maybe it would be a good idea to run that info by your c alone. also something that i always found helpful when i did not know what to do was to not do anything but pray on it. also keeping your goals in mind. my h stayed in contact with op for a while after breaking it off. he figured if nothing was going on then it wasn't a big deal. i am glad i did not know or i may have given up or over reacted. lisa
