Does your D have any hobbies that could keep her busy while yall go out? Do you and she have things that you do together, that she could have a go at doing by herself? It's only a few more weeks till school is out for the summer, so if she finds a summer job to keep busy at, that will help her with her lonely feelings. Our S is into photography, and is getting very good at it. Sometimes people who are prone to depression are also very creative people, so perhaps there is some creative outlet for your D to try. Maybe she will meet other kids her age this summer, that she can hang out with at school in the fall, so she won't miss her BF so much, maybe you can help that along by taking her to places where she could meet other kids without being overwhelmed. I am sorry that she no longer believes in God, because of whatever caused her depression. That's a real shame. Perhaps as she grows older, she will see that God isn't to blame, but things happen, unfortunately to all of us. I think the idea of showering earlier is a good idea, and having a peekaboo game with him might spice things up a little. Maybe giving him a backrub, or a massage with some warming oil. And for the uncomfy sofa, get a feather comforter to throw on it, and sit and snuggle on that. Put on some new sexy perfume. Oh, and men love the scent of cinnamon, so if you bake something with that scent wafting through the air, and the combo of you, almost nekkid, your perfume, and the smell of baking, he won't know what hit him, unless he is the rare one who is immune to that sort of thing. My H luckily isn't. Maybe say you are serving "refreshments" up in the bedroom.
