Hey OldFool,

Well, nothing new to report either. I'm still not divorced but am actually looking forward to putting all this behind me.

I'm not sure if I told you this or not, and I guess I should have checked the other thread, so I apologize if I'm repeating myself.

My WAH called about 2 weeks ago to tell me that he had gotten a job. He wanted to know if his steel-toe shoes were in the closet. I told him that they were not. I didn't ask where he was working, and I didn't initiate any conversation only answered his questions. He got the hint, and we ended the phone call.

This time, I didn't have any bad dreams like the last time he called when he asked me if I was holding up the divorce. I'm still in pain but I don't dwell on my pain so much. My C thinks I'm doing good. It's going to be a year that we separated. We separated 3 Jun 06.

I've been keeping busy going out to dinner with friends and family. I'm also starting to discover that I kind of like yard work. I hired my neighbors to cut/trim my grass, but I actually like pulling the weeds. I'm thinking of doing some landscaping in the backyard.

I need to go back to part 1 and catch up with what's going on with you and everyone else. I see that you are job searching.

Ok, my friend, I'll check back later.

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07