Well you will do what you do....all I can say is that I think you are moving too...make that wayyyyy toooo fast...but then it isn't my heart...
You see...when my H started to come around we dated...we didn't jump into bed...even though yes, he was MY H...my right...BUT... the point was that I wasn't ready....H wasn't ready....and I knew I didn't want to go through this again...
I can tell right now that if he said he was coming home to stay tomorrow...you would be falling all over yourself...and worse... because you're not ready it is highly likely that you/he will repeat history...only who will feel worse about it???
The whole herpes thing is no suprise...6 our of 10 adults have it...personally it would make it really difficult for me to risk a relationship where my partner accepted this...how hard would it be to start at ground zero with a new person???
Like I have already figured out...we can all give our advice and share our hard learned lessons with you...but you will do what you will do...
