Nop,

I have checked into other things like cell records and bank statements. They all seem to check out. As far as behavior it has changed. Like he seems irritable a lot. But to on the other hand he has made great strides to make sure we have a sexual life for the last 3 months at least. Where he would hardly ever initiate sex. Every weekend he does now. So that aspect has improved. That is why it came as such a shock to see him create this account. He does come home late a couple times a week. he does leave earlier for work. But he says he does this to get there earlier to talk or hang out with his friend before work. When he is late he is always at his friends house. Which like today he went there after work and called from there. You could hear his friend in the backround. He did seperate our accounts like a year ago which still bothers me. But I have learned to accept. About a year ago we almost seperated. But in this last year we have seemed to make great strides towards working things out.

I can deal with a lot of issues but I can't and won't deal with a cheater. This site is very real! Also I think he may have a clue I was onto him. Because he deleted his account. Either that or changed his password. I have a program on to check out his activities.