Thanks Just_Me for the insight. It all sounds good except the "It would be to your favor if she's having an affair because when it's over she'll be more inclined to come back than if she simply left because she doesn't want to be married to you." part, even tho' it makes "logical" sense, it sucks that it is "in my favor" if she is having an affair. Can't I just blame her MLC for leaving instead and decide it was temporary insanity?
Can't I just blame her MLC for leaving instead and decide it was temporary insanity? 
