Just noting my thoughts down so I can hopefully make sense of them
First text "just to let you know x has texted about meeting up so I said I'd need to speak to you first and I thought you might want to"
My thoughts on this are that this text came about a week after she texted me apologising for appearing rude and my H reacted by saying he felt so angry about it he felt like never speaking to her ever again. This was obviously not true as the above text doesn't sound like she thinks she's on dodgy ground does it? Also she seems to be very familiar saying she thought he would want to meet up.
Second text says " meet him he seemed OK with it all but ultimately its down to you we will talk about it on thurs x"
My thoughts on this are THERE'S A KISS ON THE END!!! also "he seemed OK with it all" makes me think that what she means is this guy is OK with going out with them even though he knows they are cheating on me. And last but not least the we will talk about it on thursday part - Thursday being the day he cancelled his shift at work and went out and stayed out all night and didn't think to tell me he was stopping out until gone 10pm.
What I think is he spent the night with her. When we had a little row about that night the next day I asked if she was at the works bar and he said no. He obviously cancelled his shift to be wth her.
Does anyone else see another scenario that could be a rational explanation because I'm obviously slightly biased by anger and pain right now.
