I think you should put a call out to GEL before you do anything. She has been in your shoes, and can at least give you some to-the-point support.
I can help you with the whole process, but your situation may not warrant that level of aggression yet. It may be that your husband is just beginning to skirt the edges, and diplomacy of a type that only a wife can offer may be the right approach to take with him.
If he is already guilty, then I will be glad to help you blow his affair to bits, but I don't think you are quite there yet.
GEL, are you reading?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
