Wow - the thought of my H actually initiating sex seems next to impossible at this point. But, I definitely know what you mean about being there for him. I am sure if he initiated it, there would never be a time I would turn him down because I can't imagine he would want it all that often anyway.
We are going to the C tonight - don't know if it is fair to bring it up without first running it by him, I think that's a little unfair
But I do plan on getting some more information about it - maybe some books from the library and/or there must be stuff about it online
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)