And you've asked the really big question I've been pondering all night. What will it take for me to believe him if he says he isn't seeing her. Because from these two texts I really think he is. He has been very unhelpful in trying to convince me nothing happened because he has basically said he doesn't see why he should have to convince me when he has done nothing wrong. I'm dreading bringing this up at all because he is very good at making it all about him instead ie: he'll say he's really upset that I don't trust him and that I could accuse him of such a thing rather than being bothered about convincing me otherwise.
