Maybe you're right although my face needs some serious fixing up before he gets home if I'm to do that.
When I said I didn't know what my goals are I think maybe they've changed in light of this new info you see. All my goals had been met - I DB'd and got my H back and I thought everything was better than I'd ever hoped. I'm not sure if I would still want to be with him if he's lied - I feel sick at the thought because he has stayed out all night a lot in the four months he's been back. I feel I need to know the trut before I can decide what my goals are.