My wife has been bring up some R talk this week, it is in my other threads (good luck reading my verbose posts, I thank you in advance ).
She is recognizing more and more that she is in an MLC, that is in menopause, she is having hot flashes, she feels like she is in a storm in her head. I just hope she can control her feelings and not continue to let her feelings control her. She is getting a "boob job" now and that was a big blow to my heart this week, but I think I handled it ok. She also talked about how this was her "last hurrah" and she just needs to "go sow her wild oats" and that was hard to hear, but I think I did ok with the listen, validate and not telling her what to feel or that she is wrong, etc. Anyhow lots more detail in my other thread(s).
Have a great weekend, I plan to myself, hopefully my wife will as well.