Weird, isn't it Jeanette! She does the deed and has trust issues with ME! Not feeling safe, etc...
Fact is, I beat the guy senseless because I saw him working her for a year and told him, as my "friend", to back the hell off. He claimed he did, then "Wham bam, thank you ma'am." there he was.
Oh yeah, and there's that "Rescuing" part of my psyche. Unknowingly, that's what I was doing that night.
I'll tell you, he injured her. She was nowhere near this point until he stepped in. She has had the equivalent of a brain-washing by this low-life. Now she is damaged deeply. She feels confusion that she never had prior to this. As angry as I am at her for this circus act, I am enraged at him for doing his part. He knew where the weakness was and preyed on it. She and I could have pulled through much easier without the complication he provided.
Argue your limitations and sure enough, they are yours. - Richard Bach
